But you know, I wrote a whole post yesterday on another forum, asking for boundaries to be respected and they weren't. Then i got mad and was told that I'm creating drama. I say that I'm feeling like my boundaries were not respected and I'm told I'm imagining things. I'm wrong. I'm being "weird". There is no possibility of discussing what was triggered or why I was angry. Oh no, I'm just a massive bitch for being mad. I get shit about having a post up at all. But another post, just inspires a discussion how the conflict was my fault. And then everyone prides themselves on their understanding of ways of treating traumatized people.