but I'm not not freaking out. I posed this question Jezebel but I would like some more variations on advice, suggestions, etc. Of course I thought I'd be in a different place than I am now, but I can't complain too much because I'm making steps in the right direction.

Anyways, thoughts? Guidance? Advice? Suggestions on how to celebrate? I live in San Diego but don't want to do the Vegas thing.

I'm listening